Seven years? Has it really been seven years? Today is Alyssa and John Webster's 7th wedding anniversary. Seven years, six Websters. Congrats, Alyssa and John!
4 in seven years 😂😂 most of the people I know with kids have one per year of marriage. Kids are the best use of money possible. I would rather have lots of kids than a nice house and nice cars all my life!!! I think they like having four and I am happy for them. Parents don’t have to pay for all their kids college. If you teach them well they can get really good scholarships and work a good job through college coming out with no debt at all.
I really hated it when other people felt it was their business to ask if I was done, like it was the only rational thing to stop, already (we have 5 kids, none of whom we regret having). Family size is really one of those mind your own business topics, whether you think someone should have more or less. It's intrusive and sometimes hurtful.
@2:29 I doubt that the people you know are representative of all the couples in the world having kids. Most families I know have 2-3 kids with at least two years between them. Your implication that couples are selfish if they choose to have a small family or no kids at all is mean-spirited. You have no idea how they might be using their time to help other people, instead of raising a lot of kids.
Glad it worked out for you. However, some families are "given" way too many kids for them to handle. Some have no business at all being parents. The number of kids in foster care shows that.
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Congratulations to them!!
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary to John and Alyssa!
ReplyDeleteWow 4 kids in 7year. Hope they are done. Kids are very expensive and college etc .
ReplyDeleteWow, who are you to decide that? Can't you just say congratulations!
DeleteI don’t think Alyssa or John went to college. Maybe they don’t plan to send their kids.
DeleteOr "Happy anniversary" might also be appropriate here.
Delete4 in seven years 😂😂 most of the people I know with kids have one per year of marriage. Kids are the best use of money possible. I would rather have lots of kids than a nice house and nice cars all my life!!! I think they like having four and I am happy for them.
DeleteParents don’t have to pay for all their kids college. If you teach them well they can get really good scholarships and work a good job through college coming out with no debt at all.
When they start asking you for money, you can offer that opinion.
DeleteI really hated it when other people felt it was their business to ask if I was done, like it was the only rational thing to stop, already (we have 5 kids, none of whom we regret having). Family size is really one of those mind your own business topics, whether you think someone should have more or less. It's intrusive and sometimes hurtful.
Delete@2:29 I doubt that the people you know are representative of all the couples in the world having kids. Most families I know have 2-3 kids with at least two years between them. Your implication that couples are selfish if they choose to have a small family or no kids at all is mean-spirited. You have no idea how they might be using their time to help other people, instead of raising a lot of kids.
Delete7 yrs and 4 kids is nothing, I had 6 kids in 9 yrs. It's what God gives us that we can handle. I love all my kids and grandkids.
ReplyDeleteGlad it worked out for you. However, some families are "given" way too many kids for them to handle. Some have no business at all being parents. The number of kids in foster care shows that.
DeleteHappy Anniversary!
ReplyDeleteI just love 💕 the picture of John and his daughter. She's gotten so tall. Natasha
ReplyDeleteThe older Webster girls will be tall like John. Who knows, maybe they'll even hit six feet like him!
DeleteMay the happiness you feel for each other now continue forever!
ReplyDeleteYou’re very lucky.
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary Alyssa & John!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sick of hearing about the Websters. Can we please take a break from them for a few weeks?
ReplyDeleteWanted to say happy 7th wedding anniversary hope you had a wonderful day with family and may god bless you both with many more years to come.
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary!
ReplyDeleteYou in guys are my favorite of all the Bates couples!
You two have great positive energy and seem very genuine!